Salah isteri jika tak dapat anak?

Seronok bila tengok pregnant woman. I miss my pregnancy times...seronok dapat rasa baby bergerak dalam perut Dan rasa bertuah kerana sempat merasai kuasa Allah yang satu itu.. Tapi ramai juga dikalangan kawan Dan family saya pasangan yang sudah lama mendirikan rumah tangga tapi masih belum dikurniakan anak. Salah siapa? Mesti ramai yang bertanya Soalan ini. Dah pergi check ker? Atau pun yang hebat lagi, bagi la laki kamu tu kawin lagi satu!

Typical Malaysian thinking is when a couple yang dah lama berkahwin tetapi masih belum mendapat zuriat adalah disebabkan oleh ketidakmampuan sang isteri untuk mengandung. Mungkin ini kerana, sang isteri yang mengandung, jadi adakah wajib kesalahan ini diletakkan sepenuhnya pada sang isteri?

Tahukah anda, yang punca tidak mendapat anak juga boleh disebabkan oleh sang suami? Mesti lakan...in order to get a child, both party kena participate! Berdasarkan satu article mengesahkan bahawa 40% masalah kesuburan berpunca Dari lelaki. Kajian membuktikan bahawa punca Utama tidak kesuburan lelaki adalah Dari air mani. Air mani yang dikeluarkan mengandungi weak sperma yang tidak boleh bertahan lama selepas ejakulasi. Selain itu, antara factor lain tidak kesuburan lelaki terjadi sekiranya lelaki suka mandi air panas, kuat merokok melebihi 20 batang sehari, suka memakai seluar ketat, berat bandar yang berlebihan Dan sebagainya.

So please Malaysian society out there! Do not be so typical and terus menunding jari bahawa perempuan yang bersalah sekiranya pasangan yang berkahwin tidak mendapat anak. Seeloknya, selepas satu tahun setengah berkahwin, Dan masih tidak mempunyai anak, pasangan tersebut dinasihati untuk berjumpa dengan doctor pakar.

Penangan sehangat asmara

Semua tahu yang sekarang ini, trend adaptasi novel ker drama. Bermula Dari ombak rindu, jauh, Adam Dan hawa, setia hujung nyawa, sehangat Asmara Dan banyak lagi....kami sekeluarga. Pun tak ketinggalan menjadi followers untuk drama bersiri ini termasuk Adam Dan hawa Dan yang terbaru adalah sehangat asmara.


Semalam saya sangat keletihan dan sakit kepala up to the extent that I cakap dengan hubby, Jom kita masuk tidur awal. It was 9.15 pm at that time. Tiba-tiba hubby jawab, tak nak la...sebab nak tengok cerita tu..saya tanya cerita apa , sehangat Asmara? Ha-ah jawab mr hubby. Terkejut saya...selama ini bila saya nak tunggu tayangan untuk Adam & hawa selalu dia jawab esok pun Ada ulangan...so saya Tanya lagi, best sangat ker sehangat Asmara? His answered is yes, more than Adam & hawa...I am speechless....

Sejujurnya, dalam banyak-banyak novel Aisya sofea, sehangat asmara is my favorite. Really touching and not only cover love story alone, yet cerita kekeluargaan. I must say, Rita rudaini dipilih untuk melakonkan watak kamilia najwa is totally sesuai as she really deliver good performance. Almost menangis la saya tengok bila scene Kay rindukan zainal tue...serious menjadi....thumbs up to all the crew and pelakon sehangat Asmara!

Baby development

Semalam Aisya's has start mengensot. Is that a correct word? Don't know...hahahah...we're really proud of her. She is never give up to try sampai akhirnya dapat mengensot kedepan setelah lama masuk gear reverse.

Mesti ramai ibu-ibu muda diluar sana yang Akan teruja Dan sometimes rungsing melihat perkembangan bayi mereka. Betul tak? Jangan tipu tau! Saya pun sama...sentiasa buka internet and check baby's development and compared with Aisya. Sangat taksub! Tapi dah stop dah buat benda tue...

Actually, tak elok buat macam tu sebenarnya. Akan bagi tekanan pada ibu bapa sebenarnya if the baby is not shows the development that "should" be developed at their age. Remember! Each of baby is unique and have their own time and peace. Don't stress yourself!

Saya Ada terbaca satu blog ni, and the mother is actually "help" the baby to develop his skill. Her son is yet to flip, boleh meniarap tapi tak boleh terbalik ke posisi asal, and she put his baby on his stomach until his son flip his own and just ignore the cry. Ops...saya tak boleh buat macam ni...for me biarla dia sendiri flip inward and backward. Tak mau paksa-paksa...

Pekembangan aisya is quite late, this is according to my mum la...she's start roll on her tummy when she's reached 3 months old and kind of stuck with her new skills quite sometimes. Bila almost masuk 5 bulan only then she can flip inward and backward and recently develop a new skills which is mengensot. My mum kata lambat....biasanya budak dah meniarap cepat ajer mengensot. Hahaha...I just ignored it! Yang penting Aisya sihat Dan aktif...

Dulu Dan sekarang

Topic pagi di hot fm hari ini ialah perbezaan sebelum Dan selepas kawin...what a cliche topic tapi interesting....me and hubby tergelak besar dengar komen-komen dari pendengar hot fm.
Lepas tu apalagi, I terus toleh and cakap dekat hubby, that both of us also has changed. Perubahan tak semestinya tak bagus. Dan kadangkala kita perlu berubah.

Perubahan yang paling ketara antara en hubby and me happened when we have Aisya. Now everything is totally about her. Our most prominent leisure activity Dari dulu sampai sekarang is shopping and movie. Dulu kalau keluar mesti tgk movie, makan and shopping now life's changed. Bila keluar,first off ialah cari tempat yang Ada baby room. Senang untuk change aisya's diaper. Next, the shopping mall must have easy access to lift instead of elevator. Lepas tu...barang - barang shopping pun mesti beli barang baby...mak Dan ayah dah jarang membeli...how about movie? Forget it!.!. Hahahahahha....that's our life when we have a baby.

Dari segi perubahan perhubungan dengan suami? Mr hubby not so romantic from the first time I know him...so not so much changes la...tapi for us, we still need the time alone to have fun. So mr hubby akan hantar dan jemput saya g kerja...best...tak yah drive just to enjoy our communication. Bukan itu sahaja.,.biasanya kami Akan ambil cuti once a month untuk pergi dating...ha...amacam ? Still romantic tak kami ni? You all macam mana pulak?

Aisya & vaccination

Hari ini pergi cucuk Aisya for her hepatitis b 3rd dose vaccination. Hepatitis b vaccination is a MUST Vaccination for children. Tapi sebenarnya saya nak kongsikan hukum optional vaccination yang bernama rotavirus.

Rotavirus vaccination perlu diberi pada anak berumur Dari 2 bulan sehingga 6 bulan. After 6 month rotavirus cannot be given anymore. So, what is rotavirus?

Rotavirus vaccination adalah vaccine untuk mencegah bayi Dari diarrhea and dehydration. Setiap bayi Akan Ada risiko untuk terkena jangkitan diarrhea and it might led to dehydration which can caused death. Scary kan? Tapi apa yang tak sedapnya, rotavirus is a NON-HALAL for Muslim as it sources from haiwan Babi. Ini bukan kenyataan saya yer, saya dapat maklumat ni sebenarnya Dari Internet. Actually, Aisya has received the first dose of rotavirus when she's 2months old and it was not covered by my company. Itulah puncanya saya search Internet about rotavirus and the price. Baru saya tahu it is contains pig dna.

So, when the next appointment saya memang dah tekad tak bagi rotavirus, and when I said to Aisya peads that I'm not going to give her the vaccine as its contains pig DNA, then he confirmed my findings. He even explain that there are two types of rotavirus in which both are contains with the pig DNA. He did apologized though! Tak boleh salahkan dia jugak, sebab dia non-Muslim and he thought that small portion of pig DNA is safe for Muslim.

Majlis fatwa Negara dah keluarkan kenyataan about this vaccine actually on 31/8/2008 said that keadaan Negara kita tak darurat sehingga memerlukan penggunaan rotavirus, jadi ianya haram. So, to parents out there, it is your choice whether you want to proceed or not with this vaccine just be aware with it!

Some info on Eczema

Semenjak Aisya is diagnosed with eczema, I start searching on eczema, the causes, occurrence, signs and symptoms, the treatment and so on...

So thought that I wanna share a bit information that I've got.

What is eczema?
Eczema atau Nama lainnya atopic dermatitis is an inflammation of the upper layers of the skin. The term eczema is applied to a range of persistent or recurring skin rashes of itching and dryness, redness, skin edema with possibility of crusting, talking, blistering, cracking, oozing and even bleeding. Eczema is not contagious yet severe eczema can lead to SKIN CANCER.

When does eczema normally occur?
Most babies tend to have dry skin soon after birth. Normally eczema berlaku bila baby berusia 6 bulan atau satu tahun caused mainly by hereditary and some environmental factors and foods, such as cow's milk. However, baby yang dijangkiti eczema Akan beransur pulih when they reach 6 years and above. Tetapi, eczema boleh terjadi sekali lagi bila baby sudah dewasa and normally happens at times of stress.

What are the signs and symptoms of eczema?
In infants, eczema appears as an itchy rash. It appears as red skin pada pipi, leher even scalp. In older children, the rash appears on the inner forearm, behind the knees and inside the elbow. Ada juga eczema appears pada kelopak mata, tapak tangan Dan tapak kaki.

Apa yang menyebabkan eczema merebak?
In some people, they are allergy to dust mites, animal allergens and pollens. A bacterial, fungal or viral infection can cause flare-ups of eczema.

Eczema treatment and management.
Firstly, kita perlu menjaga kebersihan. Kebanyakkan babies yang menghidapi eczema is allergic to dust mites. So parents perlu membersihkan rumah, lap lantai Dan selalu menukar bed sheet.

Important!!! Bathing is important part of eczema treatment and is vital for removing bacteria. Caution!!! Jangan mandikan baby yang menghidapi eczema menggunakan hot/warm water. Ianya boleh further irritate the compromised skin condition.

Ibu bapa juga diingatkan to maintain skin hydration. The oily layers that normally controls moisture loss is defective in eczema patients. After a bath, the skin should be pat-dried and moisturizer promptly.

So far, itu jer la info yang dapat saya kongsikan. If you have further info, Jom kita kongsikan!

Normal delivery vs c-section

Each of pregnant woman will scared bila dekat dengan waktu untuk bersalin. Siapa yang tak risau? First of mesti nervous to know whether we can endure the contraction pain. Secondly must be wondering how to make a correct push for the baby. Even experience mother who has delivered 2 or 3 babies will feel scare or nervous setiap Kali nak beranak.

So, are you prefer normal delivery or c-section? When having Aisya, I have set my mind to go for vaginal delivery. My OBgyn actually a little bit scared because I have asthma, but do support me to go for normal delivery, but by the end of the day I have to endured cesarean as I dah tumpah darah. Seriously, normal delivery has so much advantage as compared to c-sec. The first advantage is, normal delivery will automatically push the fluid to go out from the baby lung. Secondly, baby is being introduce with the "good" bacteria through the vaginal canal, helps form the baby heads and some doctor even said that baby who went through for normal delivery Lebih kuat daya saing. To mommies, normal delivery wounds are much easier to take care of. Tapi after that kena banyak buat kegel exercise la yer....

Sometimes the mother can't go through with the normal delivery. Some cases like if the mother have diabetes and the baby is more than 4kg, doc will advise to go for c-sec. Besar tu baby, takut tulang pelvis tak support the baby. Another case if the mother have high blood pressure that reach 150 confirm masuk OT.. There is high risk of the mother Akan tumpah darah when doc performs the operation and the risk losing the mother is high. The mother also Ada risiko darah beku pada kaki, paru-paru Dan pelvis, jangkitan kuman pada rahim Dan etc..

Tapi, kita pun tak tahu keadaannya waktu bersalin...mungkin memang kena perform c-sec atas sebab-sebab tertentu like baby songsang, placenta pecah etc...so banyak2 berdoa agar dipermudahkan urusan bersalin....InsyaAllah....

My daughter, my style

Ketika menulis entri nie, hati tengah hangat membara sebenarnya....a little bit upset as some people has questioning my style in giving Aisya solid food. I just call her miss x...bila Miss X saw me giving Aisya fruit puree she asked me, apa yang Aisya makan tue? And when she found out that is food puree and start kerut dahi...mula mempersoalkan pulak makanan Aisya...kenyang ker budak tue makan..kenapa tak bagi nestum?

Bila dengar ulasan-ulasan macam tue, biasanya saya tersenyum and give standard answer like buah banyak khasiat.. Tapi bila miss X keep mempersoalkan my choice seriously I jadi sakit hati...ishh...suka hati la saya nak bagi makan apa...

Please mommies out there...Cuba jangan terpengaruh dengan anasir-anasir luar yang sibuk suruh bagi baby kita makan nestum...for me homemade solid food is the best. Even aisya peads is agree with me. No salt and sugar for baby and toddler. Tapi ibu-ibu kita tak faham. Sebab bagi mereka, dulu pun kita disuap benda-benda like nestum and so on and we still membesar dengan elok. But it's different nowadays ...once upon a time, they don't have the knowledge about the danger and setback in giving instant and process food to babies. But sekarang kan kita ada resources and easy access to that knowledge, so we should utilize it.

Do you know what is the danger in giving process food to baby? Process foods contains high sugar/ salt in which perut Dan saluran usus baby masih belum matang untuk process sugar/salt yang terdapat dalam process foods. Process food boleh menyebabkan sembelit pada bayi or bayi can be obess...so please mommies..be careful in choosing your baby solid food. Setiap ibu inginkan yang terbaik untuk anak masing-masing...so please..we have access to Internet, use it wisely! And to miss x...jangan Cuba mempersoalkan my style and my choice for my baby. She is my baby and I have the right untuk tentukan what is the best for her!

Aisya & eczema -moogoo result

After a week using moogoo product to treat aisya's eczema I must say my daughter is not suitable with the product! Tapi...irritable skin balm works wonders on treating the redness yet the soothing cream makes it worst!

Kesian Aisya...bila saya sapu irritable skin balm, seriously the redness has reduced...until yellowish...so to back to her normal skin saya pakai soothing cream tapi Ya Allah...semakin merah...at first I thought mesti allergy to something as Aisya has started on her solid food...but everyday looks the same...early in the morning the redness has reduced yet to the afternoon it has worsening...so i 'm back with baby buds soothing cream and guess what? What a magic! The skin has totally improved within a night! Alhamdulilah.....

So currently I continuously using baby buds and her skin dah back to normal...

my point of view...moogoo is not suitable for Aisya...tapi yang peliknya the irritable skin balm really works wonders...mama Aisya continue to keep the balm takut naik lagi eczema dia...

Another facts is, eczema can't be cured...it can be controlled but will not disappear totally...so mommies...anak yang Ada eczema nie kena sentiasa di pantau keadaanya...yang penting jangan putus asa...sentiasa mencari jalan keluar Dan pastinya kesabaran yang tinggi diperlukan dalam menjaga anak yang dijangkiti eczema nie....chaiyok! Chaiyok!

Aisya & avocado

Yesterday I had introduced Aisya her second solid food which is avocado puree...guess what? She's totally loving it! Most of baby refuse to eat avocado as the textures and the taste kind of creamy and rasa lemak- lemak sikit..but not Aisya...she can eat sebiji avocado tu...amboi...international betul Aisya yer...

So, how to make avocado puree? The most important thing is you have to properly choose the avocado itself...make sure dah masak yer avocado tu...so belah avocado and keluarkan semua isi2nya..you have an option either to blend the avocado or just lenyek-lenyek pakai sudu...I choose to blend it to have smooth texture..avocado tak payah steam ok...

A lot of nutritious that we can get from avocado. Avocado is rich in vitamin b, e and k. High intake of avocado can reduce cholesterol. Ha..awesome kan?? So selamat mencuba membuat avocado puree mommies!

Penderaan terhadap bayi Dan kanak-kanak

Isu ni sering kita dengar..tak Kira penderaan dibuat oleh pembantu rumah, ayah tiri, ayah kandung Dan malang sekali even ibu kandung juga seringkali terbabit dalam isu penderaan terhadap bayi Dan kanak-kanak.

Seriously saya memang pantang mendengar isu penderaan ni, Lebih-Lebih lagi jika melibatkan ibu / ayah kandung bayi tersebut. Tapi setelah menjadi ibu, saya boleh faham apa yang mereka rasakan..bukan bermaksud saya menyebelahi pendera yer...saya cuma kata saya faham kenapa mereka bertindak sedemikian.

This is based on my own experience..ketika masih dalam pantang, saya hampir-hampir mengalami Post natal depresssion/ blues atau meroyan. Memang tertekan untuk menahan sakit selepas bersalin, tak boleh bergerak dengan cergas Dan at the same time kena menjaga bayi baru lahir. My baby was asleep during daylight and will wake up every two hours at night for her milk time..seriously, saya tak cukup tidur Dan sangat-sangat kepenatan. one day, she couldn't sleep at night and kept crying the whole night and I was so devastated and almost marahkan baby..nasib saya tersedar Dan mengucap...take 5 minutes away from the baby to cool down and control myself before I start holding her again. See? Even me, as a mother that have maternal bonding boleh hilang sabar pada anak sendiri, apatah lagi pembantu rumah/ pengasuh yang tidak Ada maternal bonding pada bayi kita...

Baru-baru ini Aisya showed her first tantrum, dengan menangis semahu-mahunya sampai serak suara. Bagi susu tak mahu, pampers tak basah, tidurkan pun dia tak mahu...again I was almost hilang sabar Dan cepat-cepat beristighfar...akhirnya saya selawat ditelinga Aisya and she went to sleep straight away.

So, bagi saya human have limit...even mother pun boleh hilang sabar pada anak sendiri apatah lagi yang lain. Perlu educate mereka untuk bersabar or at least go away from the baby for sometimes to control theirselves before pegang balik baby tersebut...

So apa pendapat anda pula?

Khasiat susu kambing

Sempat berjalan ke cold storage subang parade hari ini untuk mencari stok susu karihome Aisya...sedang mencari-cari bertembung dengan sepasang suami isteri yang juga sibuk mencari susu...mungkin first time for them to buy formula milk, they are still uncertain to choose which FM is good for their baby...

Tersenyum sendirian...macam tu la dulu saya and hubby memilih susu untuk anak...bila difikirkan kadangkala kita cepat terpengaruh dengan iklan di tv mengenai kebaikan susu mereka yang mengandungi DHA, ARA etc....tanpa sedar sebenarnya susu kambing Lebih bermanfaat Dari susu lembu...

Susu kambing adalah susu kedua terbaik selepas susu ibu kerana kedua-duanya bersifat alkali disamping komposisi yang menghampiri antara satu sama lain. Manakala, susu lembu pula bersifat asid.Oleh itu, susu kambing sangat sesuai bagi merawat ulcer dan gastrik.
Susu kambing memerlukan 20 min untuk dihadamkan sedangkan susu lembu mengambil masa 2jam. Ini disebabkan susu kambing mempunyai molekul lemak yang 1/5 lebih kecil dari susu lembu.

Tidak terdapat mukus (phlegm) didalam susu kambing oleh itu ia sangat sesuai untuk pensakit asthma dan mereka yang mempunyai alahan terhadap susu lembu.
Susu kambing mempunyai lebih banyak kandungan kalsium (32.6%) berbanding susu lembu (29.7%) dalam kuantiti yang sama. Kalsium penting dalam melindungi usus besar daripada bahan penyebab kanser, membantu menguatkan tulang akibat faktor usia atau monopous, mengurangkan simptom pening dan migrain serta melancarkan proses metabolisma dan fungsi organ tubuh badan.

Kandungan Mineral Selenium yang kaya dalam susu kambing bertindak sebagai bahan bagi membantu sistem ketahanan sel badan manusia dan bahan anti oksida. Selain itu ianya melawan virus secara semulajadi dan mencegahnya dari membiak.
Kandungan potassium & calcium yang tinggi dalam susu kambing serta kandungan sodium yang rendah dalam susu kambing sangat penting bagi membentuk tekanan darah yang normal dan mengawal fungsi hati yang normal.

Susu kambing mempunyai keupayaan untuk melembutkan sistem usus dan membantu mengatasi masalah sembelit. Susu kambing didapati mengandungi kandungan Bioorganic Sodium yang tinggi. Bioorganic Sodium dikenali dalam rawatan naturopathic sebagai elemen anti penuaan dan mengurangkan masalah Rheumatoid Arthritis (inflamasi sendi).
Susu kambing mengandungi bahan riboflavin untuk tenaga dan juga boleh merawat simpton penyakit asma, eczema, colic, insomnia dan demam kuning.
Kandungan silicon dan fluorine yang tinggi dalam susu kambing dapat mencegah penyakit diabetes (kencing manis).

Cuma kesedaran terhadap kebaikan susu kambing ni masih tidak meluas...mungkin kerana tiada
Advertisement di kaca tv mengenainya...sesuatu yang boleh diperbaharui lepas ni...ramai juga yang terkejut bila bertanya pada saya susu jenama apa yang saya beri pada anak...bila saya jawab susu karihome..eh tak pernah dengar pun?? That is the standard answer that I have received....bila terangkan itu susu kambing, macam macam pulak pendapat keluar...elok ker bagi susu kambing? Kambing ni panas...nanti baby demam...tak elok bagi susu kambing..kan banyak susu lain... Dan etc...even my hubby has the same reaction when I suggested to change Aisya's formula milk...tapi saya cuma senyum Dan bagi jawapan standard...saya seorang ibu Dan semua ibu mahukan yang terbaik untuk anak..dan selebihnya saya diam bila mulut orang masih bising berkata-kata...

Resipi creamy mushroom soup

Sangat malas nak kedapur hari ni...barang barang basah pun banyak dah habis...bila buka peti sejuk ternampak selonggok shitake mushroom and white mushroom...mmmm..sedap ni kalau buat soup....

So...google punya google most of it nampak sama jer recipe nyer perlu Ada cream..malas nak pergi kedai punya pasal so I twist sikit recipe ni...so bahan-bahan nya seperti dibawah yer...

Bahan-bahan

Mushroom...pelbagai pun takper...saya guna shitake and white mushroom
Satu cawan tepung gandum
Butter/olive oil
Mixed herbs- optional
Kiub ayam
Bawang Putih Dan merah

Cara-caranya
1. Panaskan periuk Dan cairkan butter
2. Tumis bawang Putih Dan merah sampai naik bau
3. Masukkan cendawan yang telah dipotong goreng sampai layu
4. Masukkan tepung gandum Dan goreng dengan cendawan

Agak-agak dah masak tutup api Dan sejukkan...

5. Dah sejuk blender cendawan sampai hancur
6. Masukkan cendawan yang dah dihancurkan dalam periuk Dan rebus
7. Masukkan mixed herbs, Kiub ayam Dan garam secukup rasa

Ha...simple jer kan...tak Ada cream pun boleh jadi creamy mushroom soup...selamat mencuba!

Susu badam Dan kurma

Badam @ almond is very famous dalam pembuatan kuih Dan juga cake...tahukah anda badam juga boleh dijadikan susu?

Banyak khasiat badam ni sebenarnya, mengandungi 20 Kali protein, vitamin b, calcium, magnesium, fosforus etc...banyak khasiat badam seperti dapat mengurangkan diabetes, menghalang obesiti, mengelakkan ostoporosis, membantu menguatkan ingatan dan bagus untuk mengelakkan serangan jantung...jangan tak tau, badam juga sangat bagus bagi perempuan yang sedang hamil kerana badam mengandungi kandungan folate yang amat tinggi bagus untuk mengelakkan kecacatan pada bayi.

So...macam mana nak buat susu badam? Bahan-bahan seperti dibawah yer:

Semangkuk badam ( rendam utk 5-6jam)
Kurma- terpulang nak berapa biji yang bagus kalau ganjil nombornya (5-11) rendam jugak 4 jam
4-5 cawan air masak.

Selepas rendam, campur semua bahan-bahan Dan blend kan sampai hancur....tapiskan serdak Dan air, apa lagi boleh minum dah....saya suka sejukkan dulu....sedap susu badam nie... Selamat mencuba!

Ayah vs boyfriend

Tu dia....ini rentetan kisah Sharnaz Dan shila hamzah..aduh masuk gossip pulak ya....so apa pendapat korang semua pasal kisah shahnaz & shila (S & S) nie?

Awal tahun 2013 kontroversi pasal shila hamzah melambung naik, semuanya bermula Dari kenyataan Sharnaz untuk masuk meminang shila pada Mac ini...sebenarnya nampak tak professional la...perlu ke bab masuk meminang ni dihebahkan pada umum? Betul la kata bapa shila tue...shila masih Ada ibu bapa and seriously Sharnaz perlu menghormati ibu bapa...keluar pulak kenyataan Sharnaz mengenai nd lala...aduh mamat nie...sedar tak yang kau tu nak kawin dengan anak dia? Perlu ker buat kenyataan begitu?

Dah tu shila pulak upload video kat you tube....subhanallah....shila...rasanya saya faham perasaan shila tu...umpama ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapa...tapi my personal opinion, tak perlu shila upload video kat YouTube tue....paling elok kembali berdoa pada Allah minta petunjuk darinya...apa faedah yang shila dapat bila upload video kat YouTube? Mungkin shila nak luahkan perasaan yang ditanggung selama nie...boleh...buat la banyak mana video pun nak...tapi tak perlu upload ke YouTube.

Sebagai anak, shila perlu hormat Dan patuh pada ibu bapa. Hopefully shila tidak membelakangkan keluarga Demi Sharnaz...and si Sharnaz ni pulak...kena ingat, kalau nak kawin dengan shila, means you also married to her family. Perlu ker menburukkan bapa shila tue? At least Sharnaz should respect him as he is much much older than Sharnaz...kitakan orang timur..bukan macam dinegara barat sampai saman menyaman ibu bapa...

Harap-harapnya selesai la isu S & S ni yer...dah tak larat nak dengar dah....to Shila, be strong girl, setiap ujian Allah tu Ada hikmahnya....moga dipermudahkan semua...Amin.

First hand experience on pregnancy and delivery

Wow...what a topic! Terpanggil untuk menulis entry ini as my officemate is very conscious to face the delivery of her second child in few weeks times. Since ramai ibu ibu di office ni, so ramai la yang menyumbang /berkongsi experience sewaktu mengandung Dan Saat untuk melahirkan..

Honest I said, my experience was horrible...but worth it! Why I said is horrible? First of I didn't even know I was pregnant until my pregnancy was 3 months old. What the heck! Since my menstrual is irregular, so I thought just another month passing by that i missed my period. Tapi symptoms like nausea, headache and kerap Kali went for pee trigger my mum that I'm pregnant...still I refuse to do pregnancy test, sebab seriously dah banyak Kali buat pregnancy test and I was devastated when the result is negative...my mum push me to take the pregnancy test again and quietly I pun buat di tengah-tengah malam when my hubby was asleep. After 4 minutes of waiting the result was positive!!! OMG!! I terus kejutkan hubby and tanya dia (for confirmation, of course!) how many line appeared? When he said two lines...I terus cry and cry until he panicked! Hahaahhah...congratulations my love you're daddy to be! He was so shocked and both of us tak tidur malam awaiting morning to come to confirmed our result...

Went to klinik medijaya, credit to dr low kok thye yang saja surprisekan I!! Hahaha..when I said, I want to do a pregnancy test he asked me why and said rather than doing the pregnancy test better we scan...okayyyy....he scanned me and suddenly stop and asked whether my hubby is in the clinic...I said yes he is..he called my hubby and I was super panic..what is wrong? Oh..rupanya just nak tunjuk gambar baby yang lengkap dengan kaki, kepala and tangan...we are so surprised and asked him how many months, and the fetus has aged 3 months old...again...OMG....starting from that, need to watch my food intake, my activities, multi vitamins etc etc...when I was 6 months pregnant, suddenly my BP is high...eh..I don't have any family history of high BP...doc tell me, that it's normal for pregnant woman , but BP high is certainly need to be monitored to avoid from pre-eclampsia..okay..when reaches of 7,8 and 9 months my BP continuously high around 130 to 140..

I still want to try for normal delivery though my OBgyn suggest for LSCS (cesarean)...so again need to monitor my BP...on 24/8/2012 around 10pm I admitted as my water has leaking...leaking ye bukan pecah...nasib sempat makan Chilli's tadi...hehehe....check here and there, baru buka 3 cm...okay wait, wait and waiting...tak rasa la sakit contraction...best ni...uigh...berlagak....the next morning pun tak sakit sampai ker petang....bukaan maintain around 3-4cms...lambatnya....mesti banyak dose ni...sampai ke situ saya fikir...on 26/8/2012 around 2am sakit contraction has started...OMG..rasa nak patah pinggang...duduk tak kena, baring tak kena...sakit teramat-amat...Ya Allah...banyaknyer dosa aku ni.....sampai pukul 6 pagi I dah tak tahan sakit...berjalan pun dah tak larat tapi tetap gagahkan diri as doc advise banyakkan berjalan to help me...kuasa Tuhan..sedang berjalan saya tumpah darah...Meleleh-leleh...nurse and hubby dah panic...call OBgyn and check opening is 6cm...then OBgyn decide to do LSCS..tak boleh tunggu lagi...masuk OT sangat2 takut and BP is around 180 dah....bila diberi bius, I dah tak bole bukak mata nak tertidur...doc advice me not to sleep though until the baby has been delivered and doc keep talking to me...bila anesthetic kata I dah nampak kepala baby...I sgt2 teruja and bila dengar tangisan pertama Aisya...Subhanallah...merdu...all the pain that I went through is worth it to have her in my arms...

Thank you Allah for giving me such precious gift...Alhamdulilah and may i be a good mother to her....InsyaAllah....

Aisya's first solid food

Aisya is 6 months old...yay!! I'm so excited...once your baby reach 6 months old then you can introduce them to solid food...make no mistake my friends..solid for baby is not similar like our solid for okay...

So...even before she reach 6 months I have started preparing for tools to aisya's solid food I.e spoon and fork, food container, avent steamer and blender and the most important is Knowledge on solid food. I have been searching and reading on solid for for baby for quite sometimes and opt to make homemade solid food for Aisya...double yay for me!!

So, fruits and vegetables puree is the best way to introduce solid food for your baby...and according to our peads, you can even introduce plain porridge...erm...I guess I just introduce her with fruit first mind you!

Below are the best fruits and vegetables to be introduced to your baby for the age of 6 months old :

Apple, pear, banana, nactarines, peach, plums, prunes, mango, apricots, pumpkin, sweet potato, carrots and parsnip...

For Aisya first time I had introduce pear puree for her...how to make pear puree??

Clean the fruits..of course ..so far I rendam buah with salt for about 5 minutes..then peel off the skin and cut into small pieces and steam the pear for about 7 minutes..so why we steamed the fruits mama's?? To ensure the fruits texture is soft enough and at the same time to preserve the vitamins..

After steamed it, the boleh blend the fruit sampai hancur....after that tapis and the solid food is ready!! ( I didn't tapis pun..heheh)...once Aisya have her first spoon on pear puree she loves it and non stop eating it...triple yay for Aisya!!! Ini yang much more semangat untuk buat homemade food...

By the way, the other important thing to remember mommies, once you introduce solid food you have to apply 4 days rule...what is 4 days rule? Ok let me clarify, bila introduce pear for example, you have to give pears for the next 4 days to your baby jgn campur with other fruits or vege..why is this important? Ini nak tahu whether the baby is allergic to the food or okay with it..whether baby can poo poo or not..so please apply the 4 days rule okay...and once you started to give solid food, so you also have to introduce plain water....

Ahh..so excited to cook for Aisya!!

Isteri terbaik untuk suami...

Setiap isteri mengimpikan untuk menjadi isteri yang terbaik buat suami Dan para suami juga menginginkan isteri yang sempurna untuknya..

Isteri terbaik buat suami yang sentiasa mendoakan kesejahteraan suami, mendahulukan kehendak suami berbanding anak, etc...Kadangkala bila sibuk berkerja, balik rumah dah penat, suami pun kita tak hiraukan, sekadar bertanya ala kadar "dah balik bang".. Seharusnya sebagai isteri harusla menyambut suami dengan senyuman ketika Suami pulang berkerja Dan menyediakan air buat suami tanpa suami pinta...bila difikirkan balik, saya pun jarang buat benda ni...adui...lepas ni kena bermanis muka nie....hihi...

Yang paling Utama sebenarnya apa bila dah Ada anak, sampai kadangkala isteri terlupa bahawa suami perlu didahulukan sebelum anak-anak...ini mesti ramai para isteri terbabaskan? Same goes with me...adoi..kena muhasabah diri balik ni....nasib la my hubby jenis sporting...tapi tak bole terus beginikan? Bila hubby panggil and anak anak panggil at the same time, Kena jawab panggilan hubby dulu...ingat tu!! Nanti hubby pergi panggil perempuan lain pulak...nauzubillah harap dijauhkan...amin...

Bila memasak saya selalu Tanya hubby menu apa yang dia nak makan..and as usual my hubby Akan jawab tak kisah....apa lagi rembat kesempatan tu untuk masak makanan yang saya suka...sapa pernah buat macam ni?? Cepat mengaku....hahahaha....ingat para isteri, kita harus memasak makanan kegemaran suami...bukan makanan kegemaran sendiri....


Seorang isteri yang baik juga perlu sentiasa mendoakan kesejahteraan suami Dan paling penting memohon maaf pada suami sebelum tido Dan sewaktu pergi kerja....sesunguhnya ingatla syurga isteri terletak pada keredhaan suami.....so Jom berusaha menjadi isteri terbaik buat suami...insyaAllah....

Aisya & eczema

It has been 2 weeks after aisya's diagnosed with eczema and since then I can't stop looking for alternative medicine for her rather than using what has been prescribed by peads...bukan tak nak sebenarnya,tapi if the medicine prescribed has drugged usage that can harm your children definitely I will say no to it!

So...last week Aisya start pakai baby buds super soothing cream and bath, in which I must say helped a lot!! But oh my, the condition has getting worse...bukan baby buds penyebab Nya but heat...Malaysia weather can be so unpredictable....lately it is so hot even I can't stand with the heat...pity of Aisya who is allergic to it...apa lagi maka Bertambah naik la merah merah pada badan Aisya...mmm...baby buds memang berkesan untuk mengurangkan eczema but tak tahan with the price...so bloody expensive..opss...terkasar pulak...just imagine with 50ml soothing cream price of RM50 it can last for 3 days only...aduih...bankrupt la I mcm ni...

My frenz who has the same experience treating eczema has suggest me to use moogoo..also an organic products that has specific products in treating eczema...oh fine...the starter kit priced RM189 includes 4 products I.e milk wash, udder cream, irritable cream balm and super msm soothing...because it's so pricey, so i opted to buy for irritable cream balm and super msm soothing cream...so far so good,,,,and it much more magic as compared to baby buds...sekejap jer merah merah pada badan Aisya has reduced....bersyukur sgt2...

Pada yang berminat nak Cuba product ni, ianya boleh didapati di caring farmasi...nanti I buat entri result penggunaan moogoo pulak yer...till later then!!

Preventing pregnancy

A little bit of heavy subject today...

Since I've endured cesarean birth for my first pregnancy so I have to rest at least for two years before I planning to have another child..well, so far so good until last month when my period has late for 2 weeks...OMG....I started shaking in my boots..what if I pregnant again? My baby just 5 months old? Can my body endure it?

Ha...tu dia...memang betul-betul takut la kami suami isteri...so cepat-cepat beli pregnancy test and so relief when the test is negative!! With so many options to prevent pregnancy we want to use the most natural method, now looks like we have to opt for another method. The most common method is condom. Mmm..never try so far, but there is still a chance to pregnant if the condom broke and tak best la...hihihihi...

The second common method is pills..ha yang ni banyak jenis pills and still there is chances that you can conceive if you forget to take the pills or if you take antibiotic and mix it with the pills...
Other than that you can take injection every 3 months, IUD or kalau dah ter having unprotected sex you can take the morning after pill within 48 hours..I pernah suruh hubby beli pills tu, and dia cakap the pharmacist was giving him a speculative look...lepas tue terus dia xnak beli dah...hahahah...

Till later then!

Eczema

Dua hari ni, hati tak tenang tengok badan Aisya merah- merah disebabkan eczema, kesian sangat tengok kulit dia yang merah tue...

Eczema boleh terjadi disebabkan alahan kepada habuk, Hama, makanan Dan juga cuaca. Selain daripada itu, eczema juga boleh diwarisi oleh anak sekiranya ibu bapa menghidap asthma atau alahan kulit.

Dalam kes saya, Aisya menghidap eczema berpunca Dari penyakit asthma Dari saya...sekiranya ibu atau bapa menghidapi asthma, anak-anak berkemungkinan besar untuk mendapat eczema atau asthma. Eczema tidak Akan hilang tetapi boleh dirawat Dari melarat.

Ketika Aisya is being diagnosed to have eczema, I was so worried until tak bole tidur malam untuk mencari cara terbaik merawatnya. First thing first, peads memberi hcott untuk disapukan pada alahan yup, diakui memang baik, tapi bila tak sapu ianya datang kembali. Then, ambil keputusan tu stop the hcott usage and changed to cetaphil. At the same time, mandikan Aisya 4 Kali sehari Dan setiap Kali mandi mesti pakai lotion. Hasilnya? Eczema makin merebak..saya sangat panic.. Ya ALLAH apa yang salah? Mungkin Aisya tak serasi dengan cetaphil.

Terbaca satu article mengenai produk organic baby buds super soothing khas untuk eczema. Eh, Aisya memang Ada lotion rescue kit kalau kena gigit nyamuk atau luka memang saya sapukan lotion itu. So far kalau guna lotion tue, memang bagus. Apa lagi, terus bersiap mencari mandian and lotion super soothing baby buds. Em...bau dia sangat wangi....tapi saiznya kecil and expensive..tak tau la sampai bila boleh bertahan.

So far, baru guna satu Kali last night and this morning tengok luka yang merah2 dah reda sikit. So will continue the products and I will share the results...hopefully Aisya serasi with this products..Amin......

Cara saya menidurkan anak...

Menghadiri kenduri perkahwinan sepupu semalam Dan melihat anak2 kecil merengek-rengek dalam kendongan ibu/ bapa membuat mulut saya ringan bertanya. Kenapa dengan anak? Jawab sang ibu/bapa, anak mereka nak tidur, biasa tidur dalam buaian bila buaian tiada, susah nak tidurkan anak.

Ha...mukadimah panjang gitu...selalu saya dengar ibu bapa Ada masalah untuk tidurkan anak..so entri kali ini, untuk berkongsi cara saya tidurkan Aisya...Alhamdulilah Aisya memang tidak memerlukan buaian untuk tidur, tapi tidak bermaksud Aisya terus tidur...memang mencabar untuk tidurkan bayi, apatah lagi first time mother macam saya...waktu berpantang sampai menangis-nangis la sebab baby bangun sharp 2 jam sekali untuk menyusu Dan tidur waktu siang...aduh..tak tahan...dengan tidak boleh bergerak banyak sebab melalui proses cesarean, baby pulak asyik bangun menyusu, memang tension...sampai satu tahap, ibu saya suruh tidurkan Aisya dalam buai...tapi saya ni memang degil sikit, saya kata tak nak...nanti kalau nak travel, susah kena bawa buaian bagai...

At first memang susah nak tidurkan Aisya, dia sentiasa nak tidur atas dada mama dia saja, bila letak bawah sebab ingatkan dah Lena, dia bangun...mmm...lepas tu tukar pulak, sebab mama Aisya dah tak tahan letak atas dada, balutkan Aisya aka bedung Dan Alhamdulilah, she's sound asleep...tapi bila Aisya sudah menginjak 3 bulan, saya terfikir, takkan terus perlu dibedung? Terbantut nanti pergerakan baby....so changed strategy again...Cuba tidurkan disebelah saya, dengan suasana yang gelap...peluk Aisya and diam saja kalau dia bersuara..this to let her know that sekarang masanya untuk tidur...lepas dia dah Lena baru transfer Aisya ke katil dia...Alhamdulilah...cara ini berkesan...lagipun Aisya anak yang baik, sebelum habis pantang hanya bangun menyusu sekali saja itupun dalam pukul 5...so mama and papa Aisya masih dapat mengekalkan " beauty sleep".. Hihihi...sekarang Aisya terus tidur Lena Dan dah tak bagun menyusu...Alhamdulilah....

I'm in love and always will be....

Ha...tu dia...jiwang pulak sekejap...bukan apa2, bila bangun pagi2 and I see my hubby next to me I smile...teringat kisah zaman bercinta la...tahun nie dah 13 tahun kami Kenal...jangan silap yer, berkenalan tau, bukan USIA perkahwinan...

Nak dijadikan cerita, we've met during high school, he was my senior and we started dating when I was form 3 and he was form 4... Kecik lagi dah gatai....hihihi..at first place our relationship takder la intense pun..my hubby yg merangkap bf ni at that time were super pemalu..bayangkan, since we were in the same school, kalau terserempak dengan I jer, dia bole pusing satu sekolah..so weird, I ni hantu ker?? Awat duk pusing satu sekolah nak elak I? Bila tanya he said, he's super nervous bila nampak I...jantung berdebar2 rasa nak terkeluar katanya...alahai...so sweet...tapi kadang2 geram la jugak kan..dok terfikir, I ni gf ker apa?..bila both of us masuk u..ha dapat pulak dua2 dekat shah alam...ingatkan bole la makin rapat..tapi xder pun...he was more close with his girl-course mate...Tension Akak!! But I trust him..

We start getting super close when he start working and at that time I dah final year...when I said super close, memang super close...everyday after office hour mesti jumpa...sampai at one point my mum tegur, bila masa I belajar kalau dok bercinta ajer...tapi I grade dengan jayanya ok...hihi...

Kisah kami memang pelik, sebab semua org igt after I finished my study, we quickly going to get married since we were so close at that time...guess what?? NO!! Both of us sibuk dengan kerjaya masing2... Tapi finally after 11 years of menyulam cinta on 8/4/2011 kami sah menjadi suami isteri...Alhamdulilah...masih terasa barakahnya....the best part is...I tak pernah jemu rindu, sayang Dan cintakan my hubby even though we had known each other for more than 10 years..so, I guess in order to make the marriage works, you have to fell in love with the same person every time huh? So true...

Opss..anak dah bangun, till next update then.,.,

Hobi dulu kini Dan selamanya....

Dulu bila cikgu, kawan kawan or bf Tanya, what is your hobby? Memang saya Akan jawab reading books...any kind of books...hobi tu memang melekat dengan saya since I was 7 years old until now....

Lepas Ada anak ni hobi ku yang satu ni makin menjadi jadi...pantang keluar ke shopping mall, mesti singgah bookstores and bought at least one book...pernah pinjam novel from my colleague and finish it the next day and she keep asking me macam mana I sempat baca buku and jaga anak at the same time...ha tu la rahsia super mommy..hhehe..sekarang ni tengah menilik novel suami yang ku benci by eman suffi

So far jalan cite most of Malay novel must be forced marriage, jatuh cinta pada pasangan yang kena kawin paksa tu and happily ever after, after rintangan Dari orang ketiga ....novel ni Ada sikit twist, sikit jer la...lepas kena kawin paksa, bercinta dengan hubby and the third party tak Cuba merosakkan hubungan hubby and wife but fell in love with other person...so my thought is I suka lenggok bahasa Dan mesej yang Cuba disampaikan oleh penulis like tanggungjawab isteri Dan hukumnya bila menolak kehendak suami and don't judge people by it's look or it's origin...and I also love watak sang suami uwais ukasyah..sedap Nama tue...ni yang Teringin nak anak lelaki ni...hahahahha....sekarang ni tengah sibuk mencari novel terbaru hanina Abdullah...I love the novel of projek memikat suami...I think it's refreshing!!

Aqiqah Aisya Batrisya 5/1/2013

Salam jumaat and Salam February....

Majlis Aqiqah my daughter selamat berlangsung dirumah ibu mertuaku pada 5/1/2013.... Bertemakan purple & white, sweet and romantic gitu...mcm la anak ku tu faham...heheheh....well...tujuan update the ceremony is to introduce the event planner yang telah menjalankan tugas yang superb amazing!! Credit to Carel Razak, with his own two hands have made the cradle by himself! Believe me when I said he's made it by himself okay....begitu menepati citarasa mama Aisya who is hard to please...well please view the pictures around the ceremony and if you like buah tangan Dari ca'rel razak ni you can find him on Facebook...enjoy!

P/S : Carel Razak is an event planner...so any ceremony pun bole contact dia...
URL: https://www.Facebook.com/pages/Carel-Razak

Very good presentation by Carel Razak